If a person isn’t “getting it” it probably isn’t a result of people trying to help. Not “getting it” has to do with some kind of block a person has with in their own processing of information and input in their life. The only thing we can do to help others is to: 1. Be honest. 2. Lay it out. 3. Listen carefully. 4. Synthesize new information. 5. Lay it out again. 6. PULL YOUR HAIR OUT AND SCREAM! (Ha! The #6 means you have done everything you can do to help). NOW–you have to do whatever is necessary for the situation to move forward. A person either “can’t” execute or “won’t” execute. Either/both of these problems is solvable.
Every day is a Bonus Day!
Much Love,
Marc
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